Here’s an uncomfortable truth therapists won’t tell you: sometimes the person destroying your self-worth is the same one who claims to love you most. And the part that makes everyone squirm? You might be actively helping them do it. The […]
Authenticity - Friendships - In the Therapy Room - Lola Adams
In the Therapy Room: The Invisible Weight of Triangulation and the True Cost of Keeping Secrets
The Weight of Other People’s Secrets 🤫 It’s 4:47 p.m. on a Thursday, and Sasha is sitting on my couch with the particular posture of someone who’s been holding their breath for months—not literally, but spiritually. There’s a guitar-string tension […]
Breakups - In the Therapy Room - Lucian Blackwood - Self Care
In the Therapy Room: When Compassion Becomes a Prison
🔗 The Sacrifice of Self on the Altar of False Responsibility The woman who sat across from me shifted uncomfortably in her chair, eyes darting between my face and the obsidian skull on my bookshelf. Raven—not her birth name, but […]
Depression - Identity - In the Therapy Room - Lucian Blackwood
In the Therapy Room: The Exhausted Creator
🪞 The Exhausted Creator Finding Intrinsic Motivation Through Ritual and Shadow Work By Lucian Blackwood, Ph.D. The black obsidian mirror on my office wall reflected Tristan’s slumped posture as they settled into the leather chair across from me. At seventeen, […]