I was chatting with a couple last week in my favorite coffee spot in Didsbury. I’d known them both for years, and after a bit of small talk, he leaned forward and whispered, “Mon, the physical side of our marriage […]
Relationships - Sophia Rivera
“I’m Not Your Sex Therapist, But…You’re Doing It Wrong”
Ever noticed how we talk about sex and intimacy separately? Like they’re two different planets that occasionally align? I’ve spent 20 years watching couples struggle with what research already knows: emotional intimacy and sexual desire are locked in a dance […]
Relationships - Sophia Rivera
“I’m Hot, You’re Basic”
You know that moment when you fall in love? The heart-racing, butterfly-inducing, can’t-stop-thinking-about-them state that makes you feel like you’re floating? Well, I’ve got some bad news: it’s designed to disappear. And some good news: that’s actually okay. The Paradox […]
Relationships - Sophia Rivera
I’m a Relationship Grenade
I just read five different academic papers on postpartum mental health and relationships, and let me tell you – they’re all dancing around the same uncomfortable truth that nobody wants to say out loud: The Baby Bomb: Why Nobody Warns […]