The Weight of Everything Unsaid 💔 Austynn sat across from me, stirring coffee that had gone cold an hour ago, eyes fixed on the table. This was the third session. Outside, rain fell with indifference. Inside, a young person was […]
Depression - Friendships - healing - Identity - In the Therapy Room - Lucian Blackwood - Personal Development - Self-Actualisation - Social Anxiety
In the Therapy Room: The Invisible Structures around Loneliness
You are not a passive recipient of circumstance. You are an active author of your becoming through the force of your will.
Anxiety - Authenticity - Dating - In the Therapy Room - infidelity - Relationships - Samuel Hartwell
In the Therapy Room: When Love Becomes a Cage
The Jealousy That Masquerades as Devotion 💔 I remember Tristan sitting across from me on a Tuesday afternoon, his leg bouncing with restless energy. His partner, Sophie, sat beside him but not with him—there was a distance of about eighteen […]
Identity - In the Therapy Room - Monica Dean - Social Anxiety - Trauma
In the Therapy Room: The Architecture of Self-Protection and the Invisible Costs of Solitude
We start to believe that our trauma has revealed something true about us, rather than something true about what we endured.
Anxiety - In the Therapy Room - Melanie Doss - Relationships
In the Therapy Room: The Power of Rumination and Emotional Bytes in Relationships
“The words don’t have power. Your story about the words does. And unlike his comment, that’s actually something you control.”
Breakups - codependency - Dating - Family Dynamics - healing - In the Therapy Room - Samuel Hartwell
In the Therapy Room: The Complex Dance of Loyalty, Self-Erasure, and the Quest for Emotional Autonomy
A Brief Reflection Before We Begin 🪟 I remember the Tuesday afternoon Tabitha first walked into my office—the kind of gray February day when the world looks like it’s been drained of color. She moved carefully, as if navigating invisible […]
Divorce - Families - In the Therapy Room - Lucian Blackwood
In the Therapy Room: Custody, Fatherhood, and the Math of Emotional Presence
The Emotional Architecture Behind Custody Disputes 🏛️ Custody disputes rarely concern custody at all. They’re about control—who decides the shape of a child’s week, the geography of belonging, the mathematics of presence. Tristan sat in my office on a Tuesday […]
In the Therapy Room - Monica Dean - Relationships
In the Therapy Room: Navigating Avoidant Attachment and Intimacy in Relationships
The Dance of Distance and Desire 💔 I met Brynhild on a Tuesday afternoon in a Manchester café—not my office, but somewhere they felt safer. They ordered a flat white and immediately began explaining their relationship with the precision of […]
Friendships - In the Therapy Room - Monica Dean
In the Therapy Room: Navigating the Complexity of Human Connection and Emotional Honesty in Friendships
I met Tessa in a café on Deansgate, where she’d cornered me after overhearing a conversation about emotional honesty. She had that look I’ve come to recognize—someone who’s been running the same mental loop for weeks, desperately trying to solve […]
Breakups - In the Therapy Room - Marriage - Melanie Doss
In the Therapy Room: Emotional Labor and the Marriage That’s Already Divorced
The Weight of Invisible Exhaustion 😔 Brittany came into my office carrying the kind of exhaustion that doesn’t show up on your face—it shows up in the way you set down your bag, the way you exhale when you finally […]