đ„ The Setup: When Your Tribe Becomes Your Trap The fire station smelled like diesel fuel and old coffee. Mark sat across from me in my office and kept his hands on his knees like he was bracing for impact. […]
In the Therapy Room: When Staying in a Relationship Feels Like Drowning
Bridget came to me with the kind of problem that doesn’t announce itself loudly but instead seeps into every corner of your life like water damage you don’t notice until the ceiling caves in. She was twenty-something, engaged to a […]
In the Therapy Room: Faith and Relationship Crisis
đïž When Faith Becomes the Battlefield The temple bell on my office door chimed as Bronson enteredâa tall man in his early thirties with the rigid posture of someone carrying an invisible weight. He settled into the black leather chair […]
In the Therapy Room: When Protection Becomes a Lonely Battle
đ The Hidden Danger The serpent doesn’t announce itself as evil incarnate. It slithers in under the banner of friendship. It waits patiently while the guardians at the gateâthose divinely appointed to protectâstand aside with smiles and assurances that everything […]
In the Therapy Room: The Emotional Significance of Material Possessions
đș The Case of the Disposable Girlfriend and the Design Snob Trevor, 31, worked in interior design and approached his home like a museum curator. His girlfriend of two years preferred what she called “practical solutions”âtranslation: whatever was cheapest at […]
In the Therapy Room: Navigating Relationships with Different Neurological Styles
đ„ Inside the Therapy Room Last Tuesday, Tessa arrived at my office fifteen minutes early, as she always does. While most clients use this buffer to scroll through their phones in the waiting room, Tessa spends it organizing her thoughts […]
Therapy Confessions: Emotional Unavailability and the Dance of Distance and Pursuit
Alexandra was the quintessential Manhattan overachieverârazor-sharp intellect, closet full of designer power suits, and a marriage that looked perfect on Instagram but was silently imploding behind closed doors. She first appeared in my office clutching her HermĂšs bag like a […]
Therapy Confessions: The Invisible Dance of Defensive Patterns in Relationships
It was one of those autumn afternoons when Manhattan feels magical đâjust crisp enough for a light jacket, just sunny enough to sit outside at that little cafĂ© on West 4th where I sometimes take sessions when the office feels […]
When I Fight About Moving, It’s Not Actually About the Location
Yesterday, I watched a couple at the coffee shop having what they thought was a whisper-fight about moving to Portland. He insisted it would solve everything. She clutched her latte like it contained her hometown’s entire social support network. Neither […]
