“The heart knows its own bitterness, and no stranger shares its joy.” – Proverbs 14:10 In the darkness of her bedroom, Emily stared at the ceiling, the soft blue light of her phone illuminating her face as she scrolled through […]
Melanie Doss - Narcisism
I’m Finally Taking The Wheel: How My Inner Child Is Healing And Rewiring My Emotional Response To Childhood Trauma
🌟 POV: You finally stand up to your narcissistic parent and a voice you barely recognize comes out 💥 Let me put you onto something that research shows but no one is talking about… When you confront your abuser and […]
Heartbreak - Lola Adams
I’m Learning to Grieve in a World Where Everyone Has an Opinion About My Love and My Loss
Picture this: You’re standing in your childhood living room, surrounded by extended family who haven’t spoken to each other since the Clinton administration, all pretending to celebrate the life of someone you loved. The shrine you’ve carefully constructed—the flowers, the […]
Relationships - Sophia Rivera
I Heal Through Others
Ever notice how the conversation around trauma recovery always ends up in the same place? We talk endlessly about processing pain, confronting the past, and developing coping mechanisms. But there’s something massive we’re dancing around—something that research consistently points to […]
Charles McElroy - Narcisism
Breaking Free from Blame-Shifting: Reclaiming Your Reality After Narcissistic Abuse
A client recently described ending a relationship with a partner who had repeatedly cheated, lied, surveilled her, and engaged in physical abuse. Despite having clear reasons for leaving, she found herself doubting her decision when her ex-partner claimed she had […]
Heartbreak - Lola Adams
“I’m Still Not Over Him”
There she is again. You’re scrolling through Instagram at 1 AM, wine glass in hand, when you see her—the girlfriend. The one who gets to spend Saturday mornings with your former best friend, the one he’s apparently willing to restructure […]
Relationships - Sophia Rivera
“I’m Having a Rebound and I Won’t Apologize for It”
Ever wonder why that relationship right after a bad breakup gets such a bad reputation? Let’s be honest – we’ve all either been there or watched a friend dive head-first into what everyone calls a “rebound.” But here’s the thing: […]
Charles McElroy - Narcisism
“Narcissistic Abuse: The Devil You Know (But Can’t See)”
Beyond the Narcissistic Maze: Treating Survivors of Psychological Abuse Maria sat across from me, hands trembling slightly as she described her three-year relationship with a charismatic executive. “I don’t understand what happened to me,” she whispered. “I used to be […]
Relationships - Sophia Rivera
“My Trauma Ruins Everything”
Trauma isn’t something we just get over. It’s something that fundamentally changes how we relate to others. After analyzing decades of research on trauma and relationships, I’ve noticed something remarkable that researchers dance around but rarely state plainly: trauma doesn’t […]