🌟 POV: You finally stand up to your narcissistic parent and a voice you barely recognize comes out 💥 Let me put you onto something that research shows but no one is talking about… When you confront your abuser and […]
Families - Jas Mendola - Narcisism
The Silent Epidemic Destroying Fathers
The scene replays the same way thousands of times. A man sits across from me, eyes fixed on the floor. His hands grip his knees like they might give way. He has not cried yet, but he will. He came […]
Families - Jas Mendola - Narcisism
The Family Pack Hunt
They circled silently, testing for weakness. The mother’s eyes narrowed as I set my boundary, her words soft but laced with venom. She hesitated, calculating. Then my father entered the room. His presence changed everything. Suddenly she stood taller, spoke […]
Jas Mendola - Narcisism
The Ghost That Follows You
The boys played together on the floor of the living room while their mother prepared lunch. Jimmy, six, built a tower of blocks. Timmy, four, knocked it down. Jimmy cried. Their father looked up from his paper. “Jimmy, stop being […]
Charles McElroy - Narcisism
Breaking Free from Blame-Shifting: Reclaiming Your Reality After Narcissistic Abuse
A client recently described ending a relationship with a partner who had repeatedly cheated, lied, surveilled her, and engaged in physical abuse. Despite having clear reasons for leaving, she found herself doubting her decision when her ex-partner claimed she had […]
Jas Mendola - Narcisism
“Dads: The Ultimate Betrayal Artists (And How to Stop Being One)”
Most men who fail as fathers don’t even realize they’re failing. And those who do? They’ve mastered the art of not giving a damn. I was that guy once. Working 80-hour weeks building my company after leaving the service, convincing […]
Charles McElroy - Narcisism
“Narcissistic Abuse: The Devil You Know (But Can’t See)”
Beyond the Narcissistic Maze: Treating Survivors of Psychological Abuse Maria sat across from me, hands trembling slightly as she described her three-year relationship with a charismatic executive. “I don’t understand what happened to me,” she whispered. “I used to be […]
Charles McElroy - Narcisism
“Your Partner’s Criticism is NOT About You… But Let’s Be Real, It Totally Is”
When “Constructive Criticism” Fails: Navigating Interpersonal Feedback in Intimate Relationships A couple sits before me, tension tangible between them. “I just tried to suggest ways she could improve her presentation for work,” Mark explains, frustration evident. “But she immediately shut […]
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“Mom’s Feet: The Ultimate Mind Game to Keep You Under Her Thumb”
The moment your mother demands you rub her feet for hours isn’t about feet. It’s about control. I’ve seen this pattern thousands of times in different forms. A parent creates a ritual of service that crosses normal boundaries, then wraps […]