She sat across from me, knuckles white, jaw clenched. Tears threatened but did not fall. I had seen this look before on the battlefield, in the boardroom, in the mirror. The look of someone betrayed but trying desperately to maintain […]
Therapy Confessions: When Caretaking Becomes Currency in Relationships
She was ill. She was in pain. And she still felt responsible for him. Her boyfriend’s face had gone from concern to desire to anger in the space of minutes, leaving her alone in her sickness, curled around a kidney […]
Therapy Confessions: Betrayal
She sat across from me, hands gripping the armrests, knuckles white with rage. Her voice was steady but her eyes burned with an intensity that filled the room. Emily K was telling me about a story she had heard—a tale […]
Therapy Confessions: Being Someone’s Option vs Being a Priority
She leaned forward in the creaking leather chair, her brow furrowed, hands clasped tight enough to whiten her knuckles. Her question came out barely louder than a whisper, though we were alone in my office. The air conditioner hummed. Outside, […]
When I Feel Invisible: Navigating a Marriage with Inconsistent Honor
The darkness gathers at the edges of her vision as she walks into the room. He sits there, eyes fixed on the phone in his hand, his presence filling the space yet somehow hollow. She speaks his name—a gentle offering […]
How I’m Killing My Own Relationships by Living a Fragmented Life
The man’s worn boots crunched on the gravel path as he walked toward the barn. His face was set, jaw muscles tensed beneath his three-day stubble. He had come to fix things, but not the fence posts or the loose […]
When Trust Breaks: Finding God in the Ruins of Infidelity
The kingdom tore in two with a sound like thunder across the plains. Solomon’s empire, divided by sin and consequence, ripped along fault lines long hidden beneath the surface. Yet even as the people wandered through broken temples and shattered […]
My Family, My Boundaries: Choosing Courage Over Obligation on My Wedding Day
Saturday evening, 7:14 pm. I watch Emily pace my office, gesturing with both hands as if conducting an invisible orchestra of wedding-related anxiety. “I mean, it’s my wedding, right?” she asks for the third time. “I get to decide who’s […]
Why My Boyfriend Keeps Me Waiting (And What It Really Means)
🪑 The Invisible Prison of Anxious Attachment When someone expects you to sit in a backroom while they work – despite you living two minutes away – what they’re really saying isn’t “I love your company.” It’s “I need to […]
When My Friend ‘Gets It’ But Actually Doesn’t: Navigating The Validation Gap
Yesterday I watched a woman at Starbucks nearly burst into tears while whispering furiously into her phone. When our eyes met, she mouthed “my boss” and gave that universal grimace we all recognize. 😤 Later, as she gathered her things, […]