💳 The Hidden Price Tag Ritual When Emily first walked into my office, she carried with her a designer handbag that still had the price tag tucked inside—not an accident, but a ritual she later confessed to me. “I like […]
Therapy Confessions: Bedbugs and Bridezillas
🐛 When Bugs Become Monsters I remember the day Emily K. walked into my office clutching her phone like it contained nuclear launch codes. She was getting married in six months, and her face had that distinctive blend of joy […]
Therapy Confessions: Being Someone’s Option vs Being a Priority
She leaned forward in the creaking leather chair, her brow furrowed, hands clasped tight enough to whiten her knuckles. Her question came out barely louder than a whisper, though we were alone in my office. The air conditioner hummed. Outside, […]
The Invisible Labor I’ve Witnessed in Hundreds of Women’s Lives
I was driving home from a session with a client last night and couldn’t help but notice a pattern I’ve seen hundreds of times before. This woman—successful, bright, in her forties—was describing how she’d spent the weekend reorganizing her entire […]
When My Grandmother Spilled the Beans and Hijacked My Pregnancy
POV: Your grandmother pulls a classic move and spills the beans about your baby’s gender, and all the church aunties are suddenly congratulating you while you’re just standing there, frozen, wondering if this is really happening. It’s like that scene […]
When I Feel Invisible: Navigating a Marriage with Inconsistent Honor
The darkness gathers at the edges of her vision as she walks into the room. He sits there, eyes fixed on the phone in his hand, his presence filling the space yet somehow hollow. She speaks his name—a gentle offering […]
Why My Reactions Reveal More About My Pain Than Anyone Else’s Mistakes
Friday night, 7 PM, Upper East Side. James leaned against my office doorframe, designer suit rumpled from a day of closing deals that made his bank account smile while his heart ran a deficit. “I did something vindictive to my […]
How I’m Killing My Own Relationships by Living a Fragmented Life
The man’s worn boots crunched on the gravel path as he walked toward the barn. His face was set, jaw muscles tensed beneath his three-day stubble. He had come to fix things, but not the fence posts or the loose […]