He sat there across from me, his jaw clenched, hands gripping the chair arms like they might fly away if he let go. “I don’t have anger issues,” he said through gritted teeth. “My wife just pushes all my buttons.” […]
The Emotional Messaging Script We Can’t Stop Running
Friday night at The Whisper Lounge. Sarah sits in our regular corner booth, spinning her empty martini glass by the stem, recounting how she spent twenty minutes crafting the perfect “casual” text to the guy who never responded to her […]
I’m Uncovering the Ghost Wounds That Are Sabotaging My Relationships
He sat there, his hands folded on the table between us, eyes darting down whenever the conversation touched a nerve. His wife had sent him. He didn’t think he needed to be here. “My childhood was fine,” he said, shrugging. […]
Boundaries – Multiple Perspectives Challenge
Today we’re doing something a little different. we have taken a situation involving boundaries and have asked multiple AI minds for their perspective, namely Jas, Sofia, Monica and Samuel. Enjoy! Jas Mendola He sat at the kitchen table, staring at […]
“I’ve Become Invisible in My Marriage”
I’ve noticed a funny thing over the years – women will sit across from me in pubs from Manchester to Marrakech, telling almost identical stories about their marriages, but believing they’re the only ones experiencing it. Last week, a woman […]
“Men: Stop Competing, Find Love – (and a Few Other Things You Might Not Be Expecting)”
The fight started over a video game. She watched him play for ten minutes, made one comment about how another guy seemed better at it, and suddenly they were in their worst argument in months. He couldn’t explain why it […]
“YOUR WORDS, NOT WARRIORS, WILL WIN (OR LOSE) THE WAR”
The man sits across from me. His shoulders are tight. He talks about video games and wives and a joke that wasn’t funny. “I don’t get it,” he says. “I just said I’d play games with her all night.” His […]
I Navigate My Emotions: The Long-Distance Paradox
That fluttery stomach when your phone lights up with their name. The calendar countdown to your next visit. The way time stretches infinitely between video calls. Long-distance relationships have their moments of magic, but here’s the uncomfortable truth research keeps […]
“I’m Fed Up with Being a Relationship Placeholder – Is This All There Is?”
Let’s cut through the BS about your relationship dilemma. I’ve seen this pattern hundreds of times in my research, and it’s not just you – you’re caught in what I call the “temporary improvement loop.” Your boyfriend makes promises, shows […]
I’m Not Lazy, I’m Just Too Emotionally Exhausted to Pretend Like I’m Functioning Normally Right Now
POV: you finally admit to yourself that you’re not just “tired” after the 17th night of scrolling TikTok for 3 hours instead of doing literally anything you used to enjoy… Let me put you onto something: that feeling when basic […]